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Can’t Remember Last Night? It Must Have Been Rape, Then!

You may remember my mention of Feministing in a recent post about Lil Wayne’s child abuse story, and my mentioning that  i read their site to keep an eye on the enemy. You may also recall my writing that just because they get it right once in a while doesn’t mean the majority of them aren’t lowlifes. Well, here we are just a couple of days later and one of the leading loons at this cabal of escaped circus pinheads is living up to my expectations. A self described “sex educator” with the pretentious moniker of “Professor Foxy” has decided that if a woman is drunk and can’t remember what happened then obviously it must have been rape.
A female reader writes in to complain that she got drunk, had sex with some guy, but can’t remember whether it was consensual or not.

“I never drink (can’t control myself when i do), but this “friend” _always_ harassed me about it. He made me feel like i was no fun, or whatever, and just would not shut up about my not drinking. we ended up at a party and he badgered me all night about not drinking, so, i did. a lot…
“the next thing i really remember was showing him my breasts…and then suddenly i was giving him a blow job. and then i don’t remember anything else.”

The  Professor’s response is alas, far too predictable…

“In my opinion, you were assaulted. You were assaulted by someone who, to some extent, planned this and that makes it feel even worse. You made your discomfort clear, you made your vulnerabilities clear (your lack of control when you drink), and he took advantage of this.”

Note the line “in my opinion”. This is a common feminist way of signaling that they are about to hit you with an unsupported viewpoint, which is what she proceeds to do. Note also the way she claims the guy “to some extent, planned this” Again, there is no evidence here. He spent weeks or months making fun of her unwillingness to drink, but that does not mean it was all a plan to get her drunk and rape her. Note also the line “you made your discomfort clear”, and the way that she does not expand on this. Her discomfort about what, and at what time? A clear thinking person would think she meant discomfort about the drinking of alcohol, but clear thinking is rare amongst feminists and there is a good chance that this is meant to register as meaning she made her discomfort about the sexual situation clear, thereby strengthening the unsupported claim that it was rape.

The only thing in her letter that makes the man look even slightly suspect is that he had indeed for quite a while been making fun of her for not drinking alcohol. Now this could mean he got her drunk just to rape her or it could mean he’s one of these idiots who objects to the fact that not everyone needs to lean on beer, so after weeks of badgering she finally drinks, gets drunk, says “Hey you know what? Youre’ not bad, hic, lets, hic, do the horizontal mambo” and he says yes, perhaps because he knows she is incapable of making a real choice or perhaps because he is also  too drunk to know what the hell he is doing – let’s face it, if you are the kind who criticizes others for not drinking, theres a very good chance you spend a lot of time being drunk yourself! These are the two obvious scenarios, and there are others, but here is the point – she cant remember what happened. It’s an unfortunate situation for her to find herself in, but if she cant remember then she is in no position to be making a claim of rape. And here is the irony, she isn’t making  that claim, she’s just asking. Unfortunately she’s asking the wrong people, after all, where do you think she got the idea that if you’re drunk and can’t remember it must be rape? That’s right, directly or indirectly it was from the kind of morally deranged twits who run Feministing. If it weren’t for their rape propaganda this woman would just chalk it up to getting drunk and doing something stupid, but now thanks to these Defenders of the Faith she’s wandering around thinking of herself as a rape victim, and the man is being vilified without evidence.

The point is that we simply don’t know ! Hell, not even the woman who was there knows, so how the hell can we or the loons at Feministing know? In the feminist world-view it is not good enough to take rape claims seriously – you must believe them to be true, even when no rape claim is being made.

Never forget, my fellow Porkers, most of these women are evil, and just because one of them occasionally says something decent means nothing – even the worst of people have their occasional good moments.

The original blitherings are here.

Posted in Relationships and Sexual Matters, Women Behaving Badly | 1 Comment »

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